Parents are already contacting me in a panic about the upcoming time change on March 10th.
My job is to reassure them, and in fact I find springing forward is easier than falling back for two reasons: 1. Kids are waking up an hour later for this time change instead of an hour earlier in the Fall, and 2. it provides an option to just shift bedtime an hour later and enjoy more time in the evening with your child.
Here's the challenge with Spring Forward
The clocks may simply "spring forward" in a few weeks, but your child's "body clock" will not. The biological rhythm of hormone release that determines when we feel sleepy and when we feel alert during our day syncs with our daily schedule and responds much slower to changes. It's as if the entire country has an hour of jet-lag. Additionally, we lose an hour in our day at the onset of Daylight Saving time - we will gain it back in Fall.
Many adults and teens are going to struggle, especially if they have a long commute or work long hours, they will feel that missing hour for a week or so. My advice is to stock up on sleep tonight and tomorrow night so that losing an hour of sleep Sunday won’t affect you as dramatically. Then on Sunday, listen to your body and go to sleep when you’re tired.
Children vary at different ages, but generally speaking If you have a resilient sleeper, it may be fine on Sunday night to start the bedtime routine and get to bed when the clock says it's time (which will feel like an hour earlier to our kiddos). However, most children will transition easier if you "split the difference" for a few days - especially sensitive kids who need support around transitions.
Here are my three suggestions for a smoother 'Spring Forward':
1. Allow for a later bedtime
On Sunday you will want to extend naps and bedtime 30 minutes later. If "lights out" is normally 7pm, it can be 7:30 for several days (which really feels like 6:30pm to your child's body clock, right?). This allows the body clock to slowly adjust to this new time and in 5-7 days you can to shift back down to 7pm bedtime and it will feel like the new normal.
2. Consistent Expectations
Be patient and stay consistent with your normal expectations for bedtime and sleep. It may take children longer to get to sleep in the first few nights, but beware of the stalling tactics and protest. Acknowledge their challenges while you stick to your boundaries around sleep.
Mornings take much longer to adjust to, so your child may wake up at their usual time for several weeks. If they normally wake at 6:30am, the clock will now say 7:30 for the first week or two, then it will creep back down as bedtime returns to normal time.
Deep Breath: this WILL shift after several weeks. You won't be dragging your grumpy kids out of bed forever!
3. Dark Rooms = Better Sleep
Darken your child's room now. Complete darkness cues melatonin production - this is a good thing!! Putting light blocking curtains up in the next few days will encourage your child to sleep later in the bright mornings after the time change. Plus, you can get a head start on Summer's attempt to disrupt sleep with long evening light as well. If only we had a dollar for every time we heard "But it's not even dark yet!!" when we mentioned bath time...
Optional: Take Another Route
Avoid the adjustment altogether and just spring bedtime forward too. Look at your morning schedule and ask yourself if it's possible for your child to sleep in an hour later. It might just work for you to keep your child's body clock on track and simply change bedtime. Meaning that kids who normally go to bed at 7pm will now go to bed at 8pm and feel like nothing has changed. This also means that if they normally wake at 7, they will be waking at 8am. This is a great route for those of you with early risers!
If this causes problems for you that last longer than 3-5 days, don't risk accumulating sleep debt - reach out so that we can problem solve. firstname.lastname@example.org